Lia نوع شخصية MBTI
شخصية
"ما نوع الشخصية Lia؟ Lia هو نوع ESFJ في mbti ، 3w2 - sx/so - 379 في enneagram ، SCOEN في Big 5 ، ESE في Socionics."
Lia's character is so much complex than people think, if we want to see the difference between a E2 and a E3 is basically Vanity vs Pride. Pride is a feeling of self-worth and honor, while vanity is an excessive pride in one's appearance or abilities. Pride is more about how we think of ourselves, while vanity is more about how we want others to think of us. With that definition most of people would say Lia is definitely an E3 but I don't agree. E3 vanity is more about doing something to please others, which is mostly about working their abilities or appareance, E3's work to please others and maintaining a good appareance which is the reason of why they are usually good students or workers. I don't think this fits Lia at all, since she doesn't work to please others but instead changed herself to stop being bullied Even though Hailey said that Lia changed herself to please others the truth is that Lia changed herself to please herself, in that moment she put her needs above Hailey, she wanted to stop being bullied by others and be able to fit in, but when she did that Hailey got angry at her because Lia technically betrayed her, and let her lead with all the bullying and Hailey had to see her bestfriend become a jerk. In the scene where Lia apologizes to Jake she starts being a little agressive trying to defend herself when Jake puts all the blame on her, which is a normal flaw of an E2, and she also confess that she dislikes the way Jakes started talking with others and not giving attention to her even though she knows and realizes she shouldn't be feeling like that she acknowledge she can't help it, which defines very well the need of love and appreciation an E2 is desperate for, what Lia wanted from Jake was love and attention and that's why she was jealous of Hailey more than being jealous of her because she is awesome she was jealous of her because she gets the love she thinks she deserves. Many would say she doesn't have any pride since she acknowledges her mistakes, but this is wrong because like I said the first thing she does is trying to justify her actions and trying to blame them to Jake even though both of them were wrong. SX3 vs SX2 SX3: When Vanity meets the sexual instinct it manifests as a deceiving of oneself that love is the answer, that they must shape themselves into their beloved’s ideal to be loved, and ultimately that they are that image. People of this subtype find worth through the sexual instinct in being sexually attractive and desired by others, so they emphasize their physical characteristics. They are competitive with others about being seen as the most attractive, and being successful is measured by being desired, stressing the characteristics one would find attractive. SX2: Combining the Prideful passion with the instinct of relations we get the sexual 2. Passion of Pride manifests here in an extreme sensitivity about being desired or not, and sometimes as a Pride in the number of sexual conquests one has made. This subtype is the most intense of the 2 subtypes, they are obsessed with the desire to be wanted, believing that love is overcoming resistance. They have a superficial personality, they’re also seductive and sexually provocative, almost always intoxicated by love. They constantly move between seduction and aggressiveness, they are generous, indulgent and flatterers but can also be heavily impulsive when their pride is hurt and the love they expect is not given back. While SX3 shapes themselves to be perfect for one person that in this case is Zoey SX2 shapes themselves to be desired and wanted for everyone which is why Lia is really popular and wanted for many boys, if Lia was a SX3 even though she let Zoey manipulate her and be her friend for years she disliked it a lot and she disliked Zoey a lot, Lia didn't want to please her but she was scared of Zoey because Zoey used to be her bully when she had no one besides Hailey and I also think that the action that makes Lia being a SX2 and not a SX3 at least not for Zoey is the fact she stopped pleasing Zoey when she leaked the audio just to ruin Jake's relationship with the music club because Jake made her feel unloved and unwanted and she chose sabotaging someone who made her feel unwanted more than pleasing Zoey which is someone who manipulated her many times, and the only reason of why Lia is Zoey's friend in my opinion is because she doesn't want to be judged and mistreated for others and prefers being her own bully friend more than constantly feeling unwanted and judged by others, the constant bullying Lia suffered made her being obsessed with being socially accepted.
