Try to Find Meaning in Everything MBTI -Persönlichkeitstyp
Persönlichkeit
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I have a love/hate relationship with this kind of approach to life. I find it fascinating when someone wants to know the meaning behind things, but at the same time for those who need to understand everything, especially if in the most complete and deep way possible, it can inevitably lead to a state of paranoia, obsession and perfectionism. If you can´t explain something, 'that something' will just not make any sense to you. You'll just be disappointed and frustrated by the fact that you have not been able to find a meaning or that something has no meaning at all. Unfortunately, and fortunately for us there are seriously things that can happen without any reason or there can be stuff without any meaning. The habit of this peculiarity however will make you believe that there MUST have been microscopic factors that have led something to happen the way it happened and you cannot do anything but overthink on it over and over again. At the same time if something has no meaning, you will try to find a meaning to why it doesn't actually have a meaning. The way I torture myself trying to make sense out of everything makes me so stuck and stubborn and I can't begin to think that there might just not exist a reason, I wouldn´t even ever dream that there isn't an answer to everything, for me the non-answer does not exist and the hardest thing to understand and that I'm still understanding is that seriously sometimes you have to stop looking for it and understand that some things are fine even without a meaning or an answer and that the non-answer itself, might be the answer. Things can be two I think: or you find someone with whom you can talk about your thoughts without it being problematic or on the contrary, someone who sets you free from this overthinking. For people like this it can become extremely difficult to find someone who looks at things in a similar way. I myself devoid of making certain observations with others because I already know that no one is interested on dwelling on things. At the same time, it is also beautiful when someone doesn´t share your peculiarity but will appreciate you like this and will be curious to know what you think. I think it is extremely important for these personalities. Someone who truly takes interest, truly listens and truly cares about what you got to say. It is heartbreaking when you see people not giving a ****. Most people are shallow, and I don´t make it their fault, I don't want to judge anyone for the way they see things, but when someone is more thoughtful by nature it is really easy to feel like an outcast and close yourself off from people. Anyway, we want to know everything in every aspect, the way things work in the back, meanings, systems. Also, the way we want to optimize systems, the way we think beyond and think about things no one cares to think about but that could actually be useful if implemented. It´s just an extraordinary characteristic. I respect people who take things seriously and I feel attracted to them. If I meet someone like this, I just wish they would be my friend somehow. Honestly I prefer someone as curious as me to know things, exploring them together endlessly, without it being a pain in the *** for them, that is just too rare.
