Type Most Difficult to Understand type de personnalité MBTI
Personnalité
"Quel type de personnalité est Type Most Difficult to Understand? Type Most Difficult to Understand est un type de personnalité INFJ dans MBTI, 4w5 - sp/sx - 451 dans Enneagram, RLUEI dans Big 5, IEI dans Socionics."
Well, what makes INFJs so hard to understand, even for themselves? I have a theory that might explain it. Intuition and feelings both follow their own mechanisms. Yet they are abstract processes that are hard to understand. Who can put their more complex feelings, that go beyond simple sadness, happiness, and so on, into words properly? The same goes for intuition. We often have trouble knowing what we feel or intuitively process. Compare thinking functions to that. They are the exact opposite. Logic is clear and tangible. It seeks to search intangible logical data and make it clear. Figure it out, so to speak. INFJ's both first functions, that they are using the most, are illusive functions. Being Ni and Fe. Also a reason why a lot of INFJs fall back to Ti. Because it's the first tangible function in our stack that helps us bring all the illusive data into perspective. And it makes sense because XNFPs suffer from the same phenomenon. Since they lead with intuition and feelings aswell. However, there's a difference. Ne is picking up on objective outer data to come to intuitive conclusions and ideas. And Fi can internally work out its feelings. So they do have more stability and are more connected to the real world than Ni lead with Fe aux, which is far more in the abstract. But my main point, and maybe the main reason why INFJ stands out so much in MBTI, is that our functions and their order lead to us having this certain type of duality going on in our system. Ni is the abstract accumulation of data by perceiving. Aswell as subjectively reading between the lines, which other functions can't see. Out of the accumulated data, it can make new connections and gain new intuitive insights on its own. Fe is mirrored empathy. Feeling what others feel, but also looking at feelings objectively to make societal judgements. Simply put: "I can feel your hurt, so I decide I won't hurt you or people in general. And others shouldn't, too. " Ti is about breaking logical systems down and trying to understand them. Figuring out truth and mechanisms, and storing the data in the knowledge database. The point is that feelings are supposed to be subjective. But for INFJs Fe becomes extremely analytical because it's driven by our first function Ni. Meaning it's far more objective than it should be. The first two functions always act as a pair (Ni-Fe, Ni-Te, Fi-Ne etc.), so every type's functions act in a unqiue type related way. I've often read that INFJs seem like they either have no feelings at all, or too many. And I believe that the "too many" moments happen when Fe detaches from Ni due to an emotional outburst and starts acting on its own. Which is rare. And then it's very pent up. So you have your first function being analytical intuition, followed by objective analysis of feelings, followed by dry and direct logic that is trying to make sense of things, which is a type of analysis as well. In conclusion, this means that INFJ's minds are focused on analysis mainly. Fe and Ti are supposed to be opposites, yet INFJ Fe is so objective that they become complimentary because they are both acting on a rational basis. This is where the duality comes from, and why INFJs can see things from two opposing sides, and it still makes sense. Additionally, these 2 functions fuel the most abstract function of them all, Ni. Since Ni gathers data through all of the functions below it as well. Which leads to INFJs' cognitive mechanisms differing from other types, making them way harder to understand. And INFJs have a hard time wielding their cognitive processes because of their unique structure, including constant opposing thoughts and the need to figure them out through their Ni lens, on top of the general illusiveness. It means that because of all that, INFJs perceive their outer and inner world differently than other types. And that stands out when they engage with others. The INFJ and the opposing party would notice that they are different, even if it's just a vibe. Thank you for reading, and God Jesus bless you on your ways.
