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The Millon Personality Theory
Self-Destructive Borderline tipe kepribadian MBTI

Self-Destructive Borderline tipe kepribadian MBTI

The Millon Personality TheorySelf-Destructive Borderline

Self-Destructive Borderline tipe kepribadian

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"Jenis kepribadian apa itu Self-Destructive Borderline? Self-Destructive Borderline adalah tipe kepribadian di mbti, 4w3 - so/sx - 692 di enneagram, dalam Big 5, IEI dalam socionics."

"As with other UBC subtypes, the self-destructive cyclophrenic vacillates perpetually, first finding one course of action unappealing, then another, then a third, and back again. To give in to others is to lose hope of independence, but to withdraw is to be isolated. They have always resented their dependence on others and often hate those to whom they have turned to seek security, love, and esteem. As with other UBC variants, they are indecisive and oscillate between apologetic submission, on the one hand, and stubborn resistance and contrariness on the other. In a manner similar to the petulant borderline, self-destructive subtypes are unable to ‘‘get hold of themselves’’ and unable to find a comfortable niche with others. However, in contrast to the petulant type, self-destructive borderlines do not become increasingly testy and bitter over time. Although expressing their discontent in an erratic and changeable manner, they become more inward turning and most typically vent their anger in an intropunitive way. Many have a long history of depressive or masochistic traits, and these features may now interpenetrate the UBC’s defective psychic structure. In the past, the self-destructive cyclophrenic’s surface appearance may have presented a veneer of sociability and conformity. Beneath this superficial front, however, was a fear of genuine autonomy and a deeply conflictual submission to the expectations of others. This social propriety cloaked deep and increasingly intense, but suppressed antagonisms. To control these oppositional tendencies, there was a struggle to maintain a self-restraint and a self-sacrificial affability. Many evinced a long-standing pattern of being deferential and ingratiating with superiors, going out of the way to impress them with their adherence to their expectations and their serious-mindedness. Failures to evoke needed emotional support and approval are likely to have led to periods of depression and chronic anxiety. They may have become high-strung and moody, straining to express attitudes contrary to their inner feelings of tension, anger, and dejection. To avoid these discomforts, they may have become overly sensitive to the moods and expectations of others. Although viewing themselves as self-sacrificial and submissive, the extreme other-directedness utilized in the service of achieving approval has resulted in an increasingly unstable lifestyle. Whereas in earlier years, these future borderlines successfully learned to be alert to signs of potential hostility and rejection, their success rate has diminished appreciably. In the past, they paid attention to the signals that others transmit and, thereby, usually avoided disapproval. The pattern of adapting their behaviors to comply with the desires of others had been central to their lifestyles. Not only has this preoccupation become less and less successful over time, but it has resulted in a growing sense of personal impotence and social dependency. Self-destructive cyclophrenics have sought to deny an awareness of their inner deficiencies because to do so would point up the fraudulence that exists between the overt impressions they sought to create and their internally felt sterility and emotional poverty. This tendency to seal off and deny the elements of their inner life further intensifies their dependence on others, a dependency that has become increasingly insecure. As noted, deep resentments toward those to whom they have sacrificed themselves begin to emerge. These antagonisms periodically break through their surface constraints, erupting in outbursts of anger and resentment, followed by sorrowful expressions of guilt and contrition. These vacillations between periods of submissive compliance and depressive negativism further compound their discomforts. Moreover, public displays of inconsistency and impulse expression contrast markedly with these borderline’s self-images. There are bitter complaints about being treated unfairly, of expecting to be disillusioned and disapproved by others, and of no longer being appreciated for their diligence, submissiveness, and self-sacrifice. With the persistence of these ambivalent feelings, self-destructive borderlines often begin to suffer somatic discomforts, voicing growing distress about a wide range of physical symptoms. Increasingly upset, labile in mood and impulse, these self-destructive borderline types turn their anger inward, seeking to maintain their earlier image of propriety and responsibility. Anger becomes intropunitive rather than extrapunitive. They rarely express their deep antagonisms and resentments. More and more, we begin to see a depressive, self abnegating tone to their verbal and emotional expressions. Although abrupt outbreaks of contrary feelings occasionally emerge, for the most part we observe an increasingly self-destructive and self-deprecating pattern of behaviors and attitudes. The possibilities of suicide are now almost always present."