Agape (Unconditional Love) tipe kepribadian MBTI
Kepribadian
"Jenis kepribadian apa itu Agape (Unconditional Love)? Agape (Unconditional Love) adalah tipe kepribadian di mbti, 9w1 - so/sx - 926 di enneagram, SCOAN dalam Big 5, ESE dalam socionics."
I agree that the general stereotype or understanding of this concept of "unconditional love" may fit the FeNiSeTi combination. As such individuals tend to have a more outwardly projected ego and divide their attention and energy more broadly. But practically the concept of unconditional love doesn't exist, and would be a paradox - everything is nothing and nothing is everything. If we love everyone the same (in the abstract), do we really love? Also raises questions as to what is an individual to begin with, and a fragment of Blaise Pascal's book, Pensées, comes to my mind: "“What is the self? A man goes to the window to see the people passing by; if I pass by, can I say he went there to see me? No, for he is not thinking of me in particular. But what about a person who loves someone for the sake of her beauty; does he love her? No, for smallpox, which will destroy beauty without destroying the person, will put an end to his love for her. And if someone loves me for my judgement or my memory, do they love me? me, myself? No, for I could lose these qualities without losing my self. Where then is this self, if it is neither in the body nor the soul? And how can one love the body or the soul except for the sake of such qualities, which are not what makes up the self, since they are perishable? Would we love the substance of a person's soul, in the abstract, whatever qualities might be in it? That is not possible, and it would be wrong. Therefore we never love anyone, but only qualities." We can't love people in the abstract. Even parents love their children because they have a sense of association with them (they are their children), enforced also by physiological processes. And we can observe the shift from these instincts when the children grow up and this biological bond is getting weaker or gets broken altogether. If the parents are not mature enough intellectually, they don't get to see their children as distinct individuals and learn to love them as so, their love being a projection tied to seeing their children as an extension of their ego. Although love in general is connected to our ego and what qualities we can recognize and love in others. And would say that romantic love and attraction as well, are tightly connected to the qualities that gained meaning for us, or what our Animus or Anima are.
Biografi
This is the love that brings forth caring for the other regardless of circumstance. Agape is a decision to put the other person's good before your own, not emotion, although emotions can provide a "booster rocket" into agape and are a natural way of attaining it. On its part, agape infuses the other loves, making them true - without agape, the other ('earthly') loves are prone to turning into selfish possessiveness. Agape is never self-destructive; it is not the willingness to sacrifice oneself that, say, someone with a guilt complex would have. It may be difficult to explain the differences between a martyr without a cause and someone who's accepted agape love into their heart, but they exist; one key distinction is that one might love a vile monster even while actively opposing them. Agape builds the soul, fosters emotional health and self-confidence.
