Astelle Von Reston mbtiパーソナリティタイプ
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"Astelle Von Restonはどのような性格タイプですか? Astelle Von Restonは、INFJ in MBTI、1w9 - - 125 in Enneagram、 in Big 5、IEI in socionics のパーソナリティタイプです。"
1st, dominant Si refute: +When she was asked for the divorce, she quickly accepted in a calm way. This is impossible for Si doms bc the past & what they've been accumulating 're their identities. Whether the memory is good or bad, Si doms always struggle letting go of the past (Ni doms can struggle letting go of the past too, but It is when they can't make sense of an event or they still have regrets to process). Even the most confident Si doms won't be able to bounce back that quickly when the identity they've been building on gets unpredictably destroyed like that. When she got asked for the divorce, she immediately analyzed the reason why without being struck with shock 1st: +"Although it was only a political marriage, we will respect each other and live as a couple for a lifetime. Astelle believed so. However, that dream was short-lived. “Please divorce me.” That afternoon, Kaizen, who became emperor, told Astelle, who became the empress, his demands. “This marriage was what my late father wanted. I didn't want to marry you for a single moment. So you'd better clean up without further delay.” It was an extremely concise and indifferent glance as if he was clearing up the remains of his deceased father. “You never loved me anyway, right?” At that moment, Astelle thought of the necklace that was hanging around her neck. After meeting Kaizen for the first time at the age of 10, she never took off the necklace he gave her. The formal letters exchanged while waiting for him to come back from war, I remember every word and sentence we exchanged at banquets. It was time to face the sad reality. It was all memorable for her, but not for the man in front of her. Now I can fully understand Kaizen's intention to have the child slowly last night, as if he were considerate of her. He had planned to abandon Astelle from the start. It was the moment when everything I had believed in for 10 years broke. Looking at his cold red eyes, which had not a speck of affection, Astelle decided to tell the lie that he wanted. For the man who was the reason for her life until she was 20, but only a husband for a day. “Yes, it is right.” I didn't love you. That's how the one-day empress life of Astelle, made the record for being the shortest empress in history, ended." +We see Astelle immediately recollecting concrete evidences as they are, observe behavioural patterns and then forming a new perception of Kaizen by understanding implications of those behaviours. Lastly, making closure by concluding he never loved her anyways. This is using concrete Se to make futuristic conclusions (Ni). +Past experiences determine the significance of a memory. Si doms don't necessarily have good memories, they remember well personally relevant past for them. So they can easily get trapped in a loop of confirmation bias, cherry picking details confirming preexisting knowledge & IGNORING CONTRACDICTORY DETAILS. The whole story abt this couple is abt Astelle being to point out Kaizen's contradictory behaviors during her time being forced back to the palace. She neither gets into denial nor aggressively rejects the inconsistency against the "closure" she made many years ago. Evidence will be in the next post. (P/S: both Ni & Si in particular are concerned w the past, just for different reasons, so anyone can be sentimental w different motivations) +And look:"As soon as the new emperor was crowned, the empress was expelled. It was something that caused a great stir in the empire. Originally, the royal family could not divorce easily. If one side opposes the divorce, they will be taken to court and face a lengthy legal battle. Even so, most divorces do not happen. Once they've exchanged their wedding vows, even an emperor cannot break a sacred marriage without the consent of both parties. But Astelle's divorce ended unexpectedly and simply.This is because Astelle, the party concerned, agreed to divorce without a hitch. “Yes, I want a divorce too.” The new emperor wanted a divorce as soon as he ascended to the throne, but the empress agreed, so there was no justification to oppose it. Her father and other great noblemen were stunned, but Astelle took off the empress' crown without any hesitation. After becoming the Empress, everything would've been easy. I worked hard, practiced, and prepared for such a long time to become the empress. When she left the empress position, all she had left was comfort and relief."