Reki MBTI 성격 유형
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"Reki은 어떤 성격 유형입니까? Reki은 mbti의 ISFP 성격 유형입니다. enneagram의 4w5 - sp/sx - 459, big 5의 RLOAI, socionics의 ESI입니다."
𝐑𝐞𝐤𝐢 𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐧 𝐄𝐒𝐈 (𝐈𝐒𝐅𝐏) 𝐒𝐏4 𝐅𝐕𝐄𝐋 ---------------------------------------------------------------------- 𝑹𝒂𝒌𝒌𝒂, 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝑰 𝒏𝒆𝒆𝒅𝒆𝒅. 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒃𝒆𝒆𝒏 𝒂𝒏𝒚𝒃𝒐𝒅𝒚. 𝑾𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝑰 𝒇𝒊𝒓𝒔𝒕 𝒇𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒅 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒄𝒐𝒐𝒏, 𝒂𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒎𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝑰 𝒉𝒂𝒅 𝒂 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏. 𝑰 𝒕𝒐𝒍𝒅 𝒎𝒚𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒊𝒇 𝑰 𝒄𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒎𝒂𝒌𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝑯𝒂𝒊𝒃𝒂𝒏𝒆 𝒕𝒓𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒎𝒆, 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒎𝒂𝒚𝒃𝒆 𝑰 𝒘𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒃𝒆 𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒈𝒊𝒗𝒆𝒏. 𝑰𝒕 𝒏𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝒎𝒂𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒅 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒄𝒂𝒎𝒆 𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒄𝒐𝒄𝒐𝒐𝒏, 𝒊𝒕 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒐𝒇 𝒎𝒚 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒏. 𝑾𝒉𝒚 𝒅𝒐 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒌 𝑰 𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒔𝒐 𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒅𝒍𝒚 𝒕𝒐𝒘𝒂𝒓𝒅𝒔 𝒚𝒐𝒖? 𝑰𝒕 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒂 𝒍𝒊𝒆. 𝑰 𝒅𝒐𝒏'𝒕 𝒄𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝑰 𝒅𝒐 𝒂𝒔 𝒍𝒐𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒔 𝑰 𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒅 𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒈𝒊𝒗𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒔𝒔. 𝑰𝒕 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒎𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒌𝒆 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒕𝒓𝒖𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒆. 𝑵𝒐𝒘 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒌𝒏𝒐𝒘, 𝒔𝒐 𝑮𝑬𝑻 𝑶𝑼𝑻. 𝑮𝑬𝑻 𝑶𝑼𝑻!" (The Ugly Truth of the Self-Preservation E4) The reason why I find this exchange so poignant is that it truly highlights the underlying self-serving nature of the Self-Preservation E4. Many people associate the SP4 as a "sigma" type that can overcome the odds. However, it is all a mechanism to secure their individual safety and resources .In reality, the SP4 is one of extremely low-self esteem. Remember that the SP4 is a self-preservation instinct dominant *first,* and they need their safety/security guaranteed before anything else. The SP4s facade of being a person capable of performing acts of service, and powering through with tenacity, is simply used as a means to secure love and affection. They lack the self-esteem to love themselves, and so seek the approval of others in order to secure their relationships, which in turn, secures their safety. However, this, in return, creates envy of others (going back to the core E4 requirements). Why is my life so hard, when everyone else seemingly gets things for free? Why do I need to suffer in order to guarantee the bare essentials for myself, whereas everyone receives them without a second thought? Why do I have to go above and beyond, why can't no one accept me for simply who I am? The truth, though, is that the SP4 does it to themselves. Reki was already loved by everyone in the town, but she made the connection of "that love is intrinsically tied to how much I help people, because without that, what is there to love about me?" So the SP4 uses tenacity as a means of bridging that gap, but that need for tenacity and resistance generates envy and dissatisfaction with themselves. The inner child is not allowed to complain, not allowed to have their needs addressed because tenacity requires a never-ending self-demand, but in return, it makes you exceptionally distrustful, envious, and needy to have others accept their service and strength in the midst of their suffering. But it's never enough, but it is a negative feedback loop. The SP4 uses suffering in silence to acquire their needs, because asking for help leaves them far too vulnerable to having their needs potentially rejected, and them being left unsafe. ------------- 𝑰𝒏𝒏𝒆𝒓 𝒄𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒅: "𝑩𝒖𝒕 𝒘𝒉𝒚. 𝑾𝒉𝒚 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝑰 𝒏𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝒂𝒔𝒌 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑?" 𝑹𝒆𝒌𝒊: "𝑰 𝒘𝒐𝒏'𝒕 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝒃𝒆 𝒃𝒆𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒚𝒆𝒅 𝒃𝒚 𝒂𝒏𝒚𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒂𝒈𝒂𝒊𝒏. 𝑰𝒏 𝒎𝒚 𝒅𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒎, 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒐𝒘𝒏, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒂𝒏𝒚𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆. 𝑵𝒐 𝒎𝒂𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝑰 𝒅𝒐, 𝒏𝒐 𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒎𝒆!" 𝑰𝒏𝒏𝒆𝒓 𝒄𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒅: "𝑩𝒖𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒖𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒏𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝒂𝒔𝒌 𝒂𝒏𝒚𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑. 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒘𝒂𝒊𝒕... 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒘𝒂𝒊𝒕" 𝑹𝒆𝒌𝒊: "𝑰 𝒄𝒂𝒏'𝒕 𝒅𝒐 𝒊𝒕! 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒊𝒇 𝑰 𝒄𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒏𝒐𝒃𝒐𝒅𝒚 𝒂𝒏𝒔𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒔!? 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒊𝒇 𝑰 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒂𝒎 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒑𝒍𝒆𝒕𝒆𝒍𝒚 𝒂𝒍𝒐𝒏𝒆..." (Haibane Renmei, Episode 13)
