Bobby тип личности MBTI
Личность
"Какой тип личности является Bobby? Bobby - это тип личности ENFJ в mbti, - sp/sx - в Enneagram, RLOAI в Big 5, EIE в Socionics."
I don't see the Pe-dom stride of marital lack of commitment to think of Bobby as an EXTP, nor his desire to be a free-spirited person. On the contrary, he's pursuing his bachelor career and doing as many good deeds to his friends as he's capable of as an excuse to avoid focusing into love and desire for romantic commitment. He's been called an excellent friend, someone you always rely on, a guy that gets all the girls going for him (although not in a casanova perspective), and charming enough for everyone to love him. And yet, in the end, he keeps himself far too grounded rather than being a happy-go-lucky person, as seen through the slow development of his character in this musical. "𝗬𝗼𝘂'𝘃𝗲 𝗴𝗼𝘁 𝘀𝗼 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝘆 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲, 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗥𝗼𝗯𝗲𝗿𝘁, 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲𝗻'𝘁 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗴𝗼𝗼𝗱 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗼𝗻 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗯𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗲." "𝗥𝗼𝗯𝗲𝗿𝘁, 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗱𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘀𝗼 𝗺𝘂𝗰𝗵 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗶𝘁 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂'𝘃𝗲 𝗻𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗯𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲?" "𝙄𝙩'𝙨 𝙢𝙪𝙘𝙝 𝙗𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙡𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙣 𝙡𝙤𝙤𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙩, 𝙍𝙤𝙗𝙚𝙧𝙩." While Bobby is externally-focused and spends a good chunk of his time hanging out with his friends, he's proven to be more of an observant person and analytical of his friend's deficient marriage commitments that gets further deepened in the musical as almost everything happens into his head, in how he sees his friends and the conclusions he gets from mentally dissecting every one of their lives in how it relates to his view about love, romance, and commitment; The toxic relationship of Harry and Sarah. The one-sided dynamic of Amy and Paul. The hypocrisy of Joanne with Larry. They are all things Bobby introspects himself about through this musical in hopes to reach an answer for his long-time wonders on the kind of love he seeks for himself, which get climaxed into a piece of music that reveals a vision of love so idealistic, yet so flawed that it starts to sound impossible, but no less romantic than the acts we've seen on this musical; All his friends represent a portion of why he FEARS commitment, rather than lack the will for it; Fearing hitting the wrong person. Fearing that you're not loving enough for them. Fearing you are annoying for the other side. Fearing you are nothing yourself, so you deserve no one in the process. Bobby intensely yearns for love, but knows well enough he can't reach the 𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘥 he wants under the amount of things he's implied to have seen, experienced or simply known to realize it's all utopic-thinking to himself, and has to resign to his own loneliness, leaving life to decide his destiny about love, instead of pursuing everything himself and getting more frustrated about what he wants in the process. So far, I'm inclining towards Bobby as an EXFJ in Ti grip, considering the amount of events happening in this musical are all going through his head based on his personal perspective about each one of his friends, as well as talking to himself through them. You could make an argument for him using Ni for how he knows so deep and well about love when he's never experienced it, or Si if we take it as long-past experiences and reality holding him into a bleak view about him and his romantic future, despite it's never explicitly mentioned. Regardless of what Stephen Sondheim intended for his character, nothing contradicts Bobby as one of the most complexly written characters he's ever done, which leaves a lot of things open for him to analyze over, and over.
