Oh Ahyoung MBTI性格类型
性格
"Oh Ahyoung是什么人格？ Oh Ahyoung是MBTI中的ESFJ人格类型，九型中的2w3 - sp/sx - 278，五大类型中的，Socionics中ESE类型。"
Note: Spoilers [Narration]: "Oh Ah Young. Who is she? The only child of a well-off and happy family. So pretty and nice, she would be welcomed into any family she married into. She will make anyone wonder.. 'Why would a girl as nice and pretty as her hand out with us?'.. if she hangs out with you... or so it seems. Ah Young was well-aware of this too. And she liked this image. That's why she was lonely. But what could be done? Ah Young was actually very sensitive and feisty. She was just smart enough not to be obvious about those things. They say that your weaknesses are usually reflected in the type of people you dislike [Note: there's a question "Q: The type of person you hate the most" where Ah Young holds up the sign 'A fake person' as her answer]. Ah Young wanted someone who was destined for her that could embrace those aspects about her. Is there anyone who will love me even if I don't try so much? My honest comfortable self.. Please see through to that... See the real me!!" [Ah Young's Internal Thoughts]: "But still. Why hasn't Jae In asked me out yet? Isn't that the obvious thing to do? Everyone I've seen so far has done that! The normal thing to do would be to make a fuss while walking on eggshells around me! Is it because I'm a woman? No. I've gotten a ton of like on apps. D*mn it! I'm suddenly pissed. **This is a matter of pride!!!** So you're telling me she doesn't give a d*mn about me? The unrivaled Oh Ah Young?! Why? Why? Why?" Conversation between Ah Young (A) and Jae-in (J): A: Ugh.. it's chilly these days once the sun sets. J: Wear some clothes. A: Isn't what I'm wearing clothes? You know nothing about fashion! Give me something to cover myself with! J: I don't have anything. A: [*P*ssed*] Then at least take off your turtleneck and give it to me! You have no sincerity towards me! None at all!!! _____ Ah Young is a TEXTBOOK sp 2. Her enneatype becomes even more clear in the side stories. From the sp 2 PDB wiki (which you can read here: https://wiki.personality-database.com/books/enneagram/page/self-preservation-2-in-detail): "Pride in the Preservation Sphere When Pride gets distorted by the self-preservation instinct, E2 becomes worried with his safety and conservation, manifesting flattery and pride as ways to guarantee advantage in the face of danger, resulting in a neurotic need to be, as Ichazo said, "the most important thing".[1] If Pride is the passion to see yourself as higher than you are, than the conservation E2 is guided by the idea that they should be protected before all things, like explained in Naranjo's book about E2: 'Conservation Two appears to be entitled. It can act as if it were he is superior to others and expect preferential treatment, becoming blatant in his expectation of being pampered and having a tantrum if he doesn't get what he wants. His logic is: "I give and do a lot for others; therefore I deserve special treatment." As if, unconsciously, she counts by the hour how much he has sacrificed for the other. He may appear to be a “diva”.' The Conservation E2 feels that to exist is enough to be entitled to receive affection; that he does not have to do anything to receive affection, that he does not have to do anything to receive care and love. Underlying this belief is the belief that he cannot be alone, that he needs another on whom he will project his pride and worth.[2] Despite this, SP2 is the least prideful of the subtypes, as they feel like to do favors and be accommodating to receive love and attention in return. It entertains and pleases others expecting the right to be compensated back. This variation of the over-independent thus "alternates with complaints: from 'I don't need help' to 'no one cares about me'. He often resorts to emotional manipulation, blaming the other to achieve the satisfaction of his needs."[2] Ichazo called SP2 "Me first", a drive to use one's pride to get ahead of everyone[3], appealing to more timid and somewhat childlike seduction, being convinced that others must take care of them, feeling like they deserve the best treatment.[4] Naranjo defined it as a need to feel worthy of being in the center of attention, combining childish seduction while also being temperamental when it comes to frustrations.[4]" _____ The crux of Ah Young's character is that she believes she should be spoiled before all things because she is cute and does nice things for others. Her pride prevents her from saying to Jae-in what she really wants. Even her background narration falls in line with the sp 2 description. I go back and forth between sp/sx 2w3 and sp/so 2w3 for her, but I feel her strong attachment to Sora and belief that people should just flock to her based on how pretty she is may be more indicative of sx-aux.
