Nicholas MBTI性格类型
性格
"Nicholas是什么人格？ Nicholas是MBTI中的INFP人格类型，九型中的7w6 - sp/so - ，五大类型中的RCUAN，Socionics中类型。"
ESFP voters, any argument for Te tert? And Se>Fi? Edit: OMG WHEN THE INTP VOTES APPEARED? He has no Ti, he is not Josh from Please Like Me, he clearly value everything by his own feelings not actual logic. Common guys, not every INFP has to be "super moralistic" .-. Edit: How he has Se? Xd Edit 2: S2, EP2 He shows Ne Si when he found out Drea's parents are spying Tilda and Drea, he says "What should I do? I feel like I should invite them in. But I can't, Matilda said I'm not allowed, they know that I'm not allowed? Say hi? I don't want to talk to new people, I don't know how to talk to new people! Questions? Why everyone always want me to ask questions?" If this is not FiNeSi I don't know what it is. "If you don't know if you're sad or not, I don't know how to react properly" (Si) S2 EP3 All the episode is him having problems to externalize his feelings and despite he actually is aware he's sad, he doesn't want to express his feelings (Fi, lack of Fe) Just look these dialogues Nicholas: Sometimes is just..., I don't know, it feels like, sometimes I don't know how to articulate why I'm upset, so like why talk through all the options when maybe I'm just an abstract feeler (FiTe unhealthy example, he dismiss his own feelings by using external logical parameters: "abstract") Alex: Why you didn't write anything today? Nicholas: STOP WILL HUNTING ME Nicholas: "Listen, here's why, don't you think that.., like..., don't you think that it would be like selfish for me to be sad today?" Alex: "No, your had your dad die" Nicholas: "Yeah, but not like that they did." Alex: "Why are you trying to be a tough guy, uh?, suddenly I'm dating Vin Diese?" Nicholas: "No!, I'm not Vin Diesel, I just like..., guess I feel, like, their sadness is more credible than mine, I- I feel like I'm like a guest in their grief" (FiTe unhealthy again) "Do you wanna have sex?" (Typical 7 unhealthy behaviour, when things got bad they distract them getting fun) Nicholas: "When my dad left, it was a bit of a shock, because, well, I didn't really know that parents could just..., leave" (Si) "But my mom, she was so devastated, that I though 'Oh, you know, maybe this is her thing to be sad about and so I kept quiet', but she, eh..., yeah she didn't seem to notice that I was keeping quiet, and then the only thing, that, uhm, made her feel better was talking about how much of a shit guy Darren was, and I thought like 'Yeah, okay, sure' you know. But then I would come here and actually, I'd see him with the girls, and actually, like..., he'd be a very good guy, and..., well, that was pretty..., it is what it is..." (This is the saddest example of Fi Si I've ever seen, he didn't wanna make her mom feel bad so he accept her sh-t all the time, and make subjective impressions with it, later when he actually knows his dad he changed his subjective impressions about his parenting skills, that made him unconsciously be resentful with his mom, but he didn't do anything about because he didn't wanna lose her too, this drawed him to invalidate his own feelings in this kind of situations) Alex: "Ever talked to anyone about this?" Nicholas: "To who? Who are these people listening to my sad feelings?" Alex: "I don't know, people? You know, family? Friends?" Nicholas: "Yeah, I hear you, and..., let's not make this a referendum on my likeability, but I've never really had friends. Well, like, not like you do" Alex: "That's not true! I'm sure you've had plenty of friends" Nicholas: "I went to..., like, movies and I traded stickers, but..., it wasn't like..., sharing my feelings" Alex: "Okay, what about Penny?" Nicholas: "Have I told my mum all the ways that I think she's failed me? No, that's never come up" Nicholas: "Mom, you can't say those things, he was still a good dad" "Mom, stop, I don't like it when you say mean things about my dad, okay? You can't doing this" Mom: *leave the call* Nicholas: OMG, she hung up on me. No, actually that doesn't feel good. Why did you think...? This feels... 'Cause this doesn't feel good. This is dumb! Alex: No! This is good, you put yourself first. You set boundaries Nicholas: No, I Iike being there for my mum. I only said that just then 'cause you were standing there staring at me with all your pressure and judgement. When actually being there for my mum is a thing that I like Alex: You can't be there for everybody all the time. You're not responsible for her Nicholas: Yeah, actually I'm gonna call her back and apologize Alex: No! Nicholas: Yes! Alex: Just listen to me for a sec, though, please? I think that you put everyone's feelings before your own because you're scared that if you don't they're gonna abandon you like your dad did. But Darren leaving you wasn't your fault, okay? You're allowed to be sad, okay? And you're allowed to let other people know about your feelings even if it makes them sad no one is leaving you we love you too much, okay? (FiSi+w6) Nicholas: What you said was very nice. I liked it
背景
Nicholas' dad abandoned him and his mother in Australia when he got an American pregnant. Nicholas was only 12 years old when his father left. His mother paid him money not to leave her and he stayed and grew up in Australia.
