The Coquette MBTI Personality Type
Personality
What personality type is The Coquette? The Coquette is an personality type in MBTI, 3w4 - - 387 in Enneagram, SCOEI in Big 5, LIE in Socionics.
Inferior Fe makes much more sense for the coquette type, as coquettes are described as being cold to others and more intrigued with their own thoughts. Their focus on their own thoughts gives off an aura of self sufficiency to other people, as said in the book. The nature of the coquette is that its odd to people that a type that is cold and withdrawn from people is a type that people find seductive. It fits perfectly for a 5 as well as for an IxTP or perhaps INTJ. ENTJ’s are more fitting of the charismatic type.
Biography
The Coquette is the kind of seducer who leads a person on without offering instant gratification. Their modus operandi is to delay satisfaction alternating between unexplained warmth and coldness so that the victim stays in a state of anticipation not knowing what is coming next. They play on the human psychology knowing that anything that is easily available to humans is not necessarily valued. Hence, they create a persona of being unavailable and this generates excitement in their audience. Coquettes are somewhat narcissistic as well and have no qualms in making their victims pursue them relentlessly. They create a sense of insecurity in their targets and when they reach the brink, they pull them back with show of warmth and attention. They play within them imparticular set emotions swinging between love and hate. SYMBOL: The Shadow. It cannot be grasped. Chase your shadow and it will flee; turn your back on it and it will follow you. It is also a person's dark side, the thing that makes them mysterious. After they have given us pleasure, the shadow of their withdrawal makes us yearn for their return, much as clouds make us yearn for the sun.
