The Charmer MBTI Personality Type
Personality
What personality type is The Charmer? The Charmer is an ESFJ personality type in MBTI, 2w3 - sx/so - 739 in Enneagram, in Big 5, ESE in Socionics.
Did yall even read the book? bias voting or something idk? Their powers lie in their ability to be passive and graceful under any circumstance. Slow, calm, listen attentively, waiting for the ‘’right’’ time to strike under the guise they're too gentle to do anything. Their fault is becoming too passive (people pleasing) allowing others to walk all over them. They can regain power by helping someone in trouble. They Never explain themselves nor even try to have an interesting personality (NO ENTP ever), just boring in reality. its all about weaponizing passiveness and PATIENCE. contrary to those around them, charmers express emotions and sympathy publicly garnering the trust of people. Ruling people without a single ounce of violence. Like an exaggerated version of how people imagine femininity. literally every xsfj i know.
Biography
Charmers are those who seduce by making their targets the center of attention. They don't highlight their own selves, but rather their entire focus is on bringing comfort and pleasure to their targets. They avoid all sorts of conflict and appeal to a person's vanity by making them talk about themselves. They watch and observe allowing their targets to open up completely. Once they know their weaknesses, they use that information to give them what they want. This allows them to have a complete hold on their targets. Greene gives the example of Benjamin Disraeli and Queen Victoria's relationship. Disraeli knew that Queen Victoria longed for a man's attention and used this insight to gain her confidence and proximity in court. SYMBOL: The Mirror. Your spirit holds a mirror up to others. When they see you they see themselves: their values, their tastes, even their flaws. Their lifelong love affair with their own image is comfortable and hypnotic; so feed it. No one ever sees what is behind the mirror.
