Social Four type de personnalité MBTI
Personnalité
"Quel type de personnalité est Social Four? Social Four est un type de personnalité INFP dans MBTI, 4w5 - so/sp - 469 dans Enneagram, RLUAI dans Big 5, EII dans Socionics."
[1/2] 𝐒𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐅𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐈𝐍(𝐅) The Point Four is fixated on Ego-Melancholy, which stems from Image Ego. This ego is rooted from relational instinct. This ego stems from a sense of being criticized in childhood or a sense of having their identity be questioned, which arises a sense of being inherently flawed. We could understand this fixation as a cognitive distortion that one is inherently flawed by nature. This is why this fixation is also known as False Lack. Due to the psychic poison of Jealousy, this fixation would make the person jealous with other people's lives, since this ego feels that other people aren’t flawed like them and have achieved happiness. Therefore, a natural question arises from this ego, “why must I have been denied a proper life?” (Ichazo on Point 4). Since the Image Ego is concerned with one's relationship with others, this fixation would project this false sense of lack to others. This projection would become the passion of Envy. Naranjo explained that Envy is “a painful sense of lack and a craving toward that which is felt lacking” (Character & Neurosis). This passion makes the E4 feel that they have to incorporate something good from outside of oneself. Envy contains the self-frustration aspect of it, since its excessive craving of love would never satisfy the inner sense of scarcity and badness, but instead makes the person suffer more and more. Therefore, frustration is the natural consequence of Envy. This passion could be understood from its relative position in the Enneagram. Envy is situated between the Vanity of E3 and Avarice of E5. E5 is characterized by giving up expectations to the outside world and concerns in holding one’s energy, while E3 is also a part of Image Ego, the ego that concerns with one’s image. While E3 identifies with parts that coincide with self-idealized images, E4 identifies with parts that fail to fit the self-idealized image. Therefore, we could understand this character as a character that is animated by a vanity that fails to reach its goal because of the admixture of the sense of scarcity and worthlessness (of Point 5) that ultimately manifests in forceful reaching out and intense demand for that which is missed (Character & Neurosis). When this structure meets the adaptational-related Social instinct, this would create a character that projects their false lack in the Social sphere. This character is rather ironic since in order to adapt themselves, this character essentially exaggerates how inferior they are in relation to the social standard. Ichazo named the neurotic need of this character as “Shame”. We could understand this neurotic need as a neurotic need to shame, victimize, and sabotage oneself, a need to show how inferior they are. SO4 is the “sufferer” of the E4 subtypes, since they find comfort in self-blaming and comparing themselves to others in an inferior way. Naranjo compared this motivation of SO4 with so-called “depressive position”, an attitude “which the boy [sic] prefers to blame himself instead of unloading his rage against the mother, whom he needs exaggeratedly” (27 personajes en busca del ser). To cope with their frustration, this character has adapted to introject their frustration to themselves. This is a sharp contrast to SX4 that releases their frustration outwards. When SX4 gives their poison to others, SO4 swallows their own poison. Despite that, SO4 doesn’t necessarily suffer in silence like SP4. SO4 is relatively open in expressing their false sense of lack and inferiority and prone to dramatize it. However, instead of blaming others like SX4, SO4 blames themselves. They find comfort in putting themselves below others as if their inferiority is a beauty that they seek to be engulfed into, and this manifests in a constant state of suffering that puts them below other’s mercy.
Biographie
For the Social Four subtype, feelings of deficiency can be provoked by social situations, such as envy directed toward other people’s status or appearance of belonging. This subtype seeks to establish an acceptable social role, possibly as the emotional truth-teller for the group, and often feels a need to resolve the tension between the quest for individual authenticity and social expectations. SO4 Trait Structure and Further Descriptions:https://wiki.personality-database.com/books/enneagram/page/social-4-in-detail
