Social Four mbti kişilik türü
Kişilik
"Social Four hangi kişilik türü? Social Four, MBTI, 4w5 - so/sp - 469 'de INFP kişilik türüdür, RLUAI, RLUAI, büyük 5, EII' dır."
⚠️ 𝗦𝗶𝗴𝗻𝘀 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗯𝗼𝗱𝘆 𝗶𝘀 𝗰𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗹𝘆 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗮 𝗦𝗢𝟰 𝟏. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐥𝐲 𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐲 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐦 "The social E4 is a person who complains too much, is very tearful and often puts himself in the role of a victim" If someone rarely views themselves as the wronged one or doesn't instinctively frame their life through misfortune and pain, they're probably not a SO4. This subtype needs to feel unlucky to feel real, they thrive off being the mistreated and the unloved. No victim complex? Likely not a SO4. 𝟐. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐝𝐰𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐢𝐧 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐫 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐦𝐚𝐬𝐨𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐬𝐦 "Self-denigration was obsessive and it was impossible for me to be alone since torturer thoughts came to my mind that I produced without rest." If someone doesn't constantly pick themselves apart or find a twisted comfort in feeling inferior, they're probably not this subtype, becuase SO4s cling to that self-hatred like a comfort zone ,so it makes them feel special and gives shape to their identity. 𝟑. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐧 𝐬𝐚𝐝𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐚 𝐩𝐮𝐛𝐥𝐢𝐜 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 "I could be very sweet, friendly and extremely good in public, and become aggressive and angry in intimacy." SO4s often repress their anger in social settings and express it privately through emotional outbursts, passive aggression or silent treatment. If someone is emotionally stable across settings or shows anger instead of shame, they're not fitting this subtype. 𝟒. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐲 𝐨𝐧 𝐩𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐝𝐞𝐩𝐭𝐡 𝐨𝐫 𝐯𝐚𝐥𝐮𝐞 "I thought I was very deep for having tangled thoughts and living strong emotions under a disguise of softness and sweetness" SO4s equate emotional suffering with significance. If someone doesn-t romanticize pain or doesn't use it to validate their identity as deep or special, chances are they aren't a SO4. Being fine or happy isn't their natural baseline it threatens their whole narrative. 𝟓. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐩𝐮𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 "This manipulation occurred in all the relationships… it served for others to give me, and was the way to reflect my hatred and envy." If someone doesn't try to get attention by playing weak or doesn't seduce others through their pain and emotional neediness, they're not likely a SO4. This subtype often makes people feel guilty for not being there for them enough. 𝟔. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐜𝐲𝐜𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐝𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐥 "First I gave myself over to over-contact and then my withdrawal was total… I locked myself up and isolated myself." SO4s tend to engage too much emotionally and then pull back dramatically, often sabotaging their own relationships. If someone handles emotional connection in a stable, mutualor consistent way, without these dramatic highs and lows they're probably not SO4. 𝟕. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐰𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐞 𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐚𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐫𝐨𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐞 "Having or not having a relationship was the purpose of existence… Life was melancholic and full of impoverishing experiences in this regard" SO4s are obsessed with the idea of love as salvation. If someone isn't constantly consumed by unfulfilled longing, heartbreak or the pain of absence in their romantic life and doesn't define their self-worth through it, they're likely not SO4. 𝟖. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐚𝐩𝐬𝐞 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐬𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐬𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 If someone doesn't fear judgment or social exposure and doesn't experience crippling shame when they're seen or recognized, they're probably not SO4. This subtype often hides when attention gets too real, because being seen threatens their carefully maintained image of broken beauty
Biyografi
For the Social Four subtype, feelings of deficiency can be provoked by social situations, such as envy directed toward other people’s status or appearance of belonging. This subtype seeks to establish an acceptable social role, possibly as the emotional truth-teller for the group, and often feels a need to resolve the tension between the quest for individual authenticity and social expectations. SO4 Trait Structure and Further Descriptions:https://wiki.personality-database.com/books/enneagram/page/social-4-in-detail
