Ari tipe kepribadian MBTI
Kepribadian
"Jenis kepribadian apa itu Ari? Ari adalah tipe kepribadian di mbti, 2w3 - sp/sx - 279 di enneagram, SCOAI dalam Big 5, ESE dalam socionics."
Quotes from chapter 47: "Oppa, should I get a new car? Just because. Now that you're driving my car, I think something cooler would suit you better" | "True, but.. what if.. I just crash [my car] somewhere and ask my dad to replace it? My dad would give me anything if I asked!" Ari comes of to me as an sp 2 > sx 2 and this chapter kind of solidified that for me. Sp 2s believe they are entitled to love just for existing and just because they are cute. They are youthful, act childlike to gain love, and are the "diva" / beloved prince or princess of the E2s. Sx 2s on the other hand believe they are gorgeous but also focus on seduction and putting in effort to be loved. They believe love is overcoming resistance. Ari's belief that she could just crash her car and get her dad to do anything that she says comes off as sp 2 > sx 2 for me. From the sp 2 summary (which you can read here: https://wiki.personality-database.com/books/enneagram/page/self-preservation-2-in-detail ): "Pride in the Preservation Sphere When Pride gets distorted by the self-preservation instinct, E2 becomes worried with his safety and conservation, manifesting flattery and pride as ways to guarantee advantage in the face of danger, resulting in a neurotic need to be, as Ichazo said, "the most important thing".[1] If Pride is the passion to see yourself as higher than you are, than the conservation E2 is guided by the idea that they should be protected before all things, like explained in Naranjo's book about E2: Conservation Two appears to be entitled. It can act as if it were he is superior to others and expect preferential treatment, becoming blatant in his expectation of being pampered and having a tantrum if he doesn't get what he wants. His logic is: "I give and do a lot for others; therefore I deserve special treatment." As if, unconsciously, she counts by the hour how much he has sacrificed for the other. He may appear to be a “diva”. The Conservation E2 feels that to exist is enough to be entitled to receive affection; that he does not have to do anything to receive affection, that he does not have to do anything to receive care and love. Underlying this belief is the belief that he cannot be alone, that he needs another on whom he will project his pride and worth.[2] Despite this, SP2 is the least prideful of the subtypes, as they feel like to do favors and be accommodating to receive love and attention in return. It entertains and pleases others expecting the right to be compensated back. This variation of the over-independent thus "alternates with complaints: from 'I don't need help' to 'no one cares about me'. He often resorts to emotional manipulation, blaming the other to achieve the satisfaction of his needs."[2] Ichazo called SP2 "Me first", a drive to use one's pride to get ahead of everyone[3], appealing to more timid and somewhat childlike seduction, being convinced that others must take care of them, feeling like they deserve the best treatment.[4] Naranjo defined it as a need to feel worthy of being in the center of attention, combining childish seduction while also being temperamental when it comes to frustrations.[4]"
