Lily van der Woodsen MBTI Personality Type
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What personality type is Lily van der Woodsen? Lily van der Woodsen is an ESTJ personality type in MBTI, 3w2 - so/sp - 361 in Enneagram, SCOEN in Big 5, LSE in Socionics.
Don’t get ESFJ. Lily is led with Te; she’s logical, is very natural with dealing with people in business matters, and tends to focus on problem-solving an emotional situation. When does she ever focus on the emotional harmony? Yes, Lily is fixated on reputation and image, but that’s not necessarily just a Fe trait. Her decisions would be completely different if she were focused on how her children felt and want. A big pattern I’ve noticed, is that many times, Lily is called out for making decisions that served herself, and making a lot of situations about herself and her emotions. This is an unhealthy manifestation of inferior Fi. Lily is not comfortable with her own emotions, barely in tune. She tends to live in denial, a big issue in her relationship with Serena. But when she does get emotional, she’s stuck in her own emotions where she fails to see a win-win solution or putting someone else’s feelings and needs ahead of her own. She uses the excuse that she IS doing something for someone’s own good, but in reality, she becomes self-centered.
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