Nicholas “Nick” Nelson tipo di personalità MBTI
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"Che tipo di personalità è Nicholas “Nick” Nelson? Nicholas “Nick” Nelson è un tipo di personalità ESFJ in mbti, 9w1 - so/sx - 926 in enneagram, SCOAN in big 5, ESE in socionics."
Y’all already messed up the comic character profile, voting him as so 2, so it’s my duty to hop in here before it’s too late and prevent that from repeating itself (Even though the consensus is already at 2 😭). He’s not a 2 because he’s social, nice and likeable. Where 👏🏿 Is 👏🏿 His 👏🏿 Pride?! So 9 or sp 6 are far more likely options. Edit: Here’s the full argument: The passion for 2 is PRIDE. So many people forget this way too easily. Pride in E2 manifests as an overinflation of self importance. Desiring to create relationships where people depend on you. Overestimating how much others require your help. Seeing yourself as another’s savior / redeemer / caretaker. Giving to get. Expecting others to meet your needs because you’ve met theirs. Needing to be needed. 2s are in the image triad. The drive is to live up to an idealized version of themselves as a charming, loveable person that others can’t live without. 2s are not passive, unassuming people who shrink into the background and smile sweetly. Certainly not so 2s. They’re far more forceful, present and even sometimes quite aggressive than people give them credit for. They ACTIVELY and INTENTIONALLY curate a specific image they project to others. With a dominant so instinct, this would manifest as an intentional “seduction” of groups. Finding out what the group needs the most and meeting that need, so in the end you can receive from the group the adoration to feed your pride that you require. So 2s are defined by their ambition to appear powerful and intellectual in front of others. This isn’t like Nick whatsoever. (I don’t even think he has 2 in his tritype at all. A 3 fix seems most likely. His pride is virtually nonexistent). He way more closely resembles a so 9. The passion for 9 is sloth which manifests as an urge towards merging. With a dominant so instinct, it results in merging to a group. Defining yourself and basing your identity on your function within the group. Placing group needs ahead of yours. Prioritizing social harmony over self actualisation. The biggest struggle for 9s is to separate themselves from whatever they’ve merged with and figure out, on their own, what their individual passions, drives, motivations, wants and needs are. This is pretty much Nick’s whole character arc and growth path in the first season and it’s obviously quite a struggle for him. He has very obvious challenges with asserting himself within the group and going against their wishes. It’s clear that he doesn’t approve of his friends bullying Tao and Charlie and yet he stays silent for quite some time, not actively participating, but too scared to separate himself and risk being cut off. He agrees to go out with Imogen, not to bolster his image and earn admiration in a prideful manner, but because he knows it’s what is expected of him. And then struggles to turn her down, knowing all the while he doesn’t like her to spare her feelings (“You before me” mentality) and is only able to after much effort. Here’s a quote from him during that interaction: “Do you ever feel like you’re only doing things because everyone else is?… you’re scared to change or do something that might confuse or surprise people. Your real personality has been buried inside you a long time” This quote perfectly sums up how sloth shows up in so 9s. Before growth, the natural tendency is to bypass the work of figuring out who you are on your own, and instead, outsource the responsibility of your identity to the group to tell you who you are. 2s can definitely struggle to know who they are as well since they’re so prone to getting caught up in people pleasing, but for a 2 the focus is on their image. Notice how he doesn’t say “I’m scared to be myself because I’m worried about how that would affect my image and reputation.” Instead, it’s “I’m scared to do something that might confuse or surprise people.” The focus is on others and a sense of belonging. He’s not striving to seduce the group through charm, but rather to participate within it by not upsetting the balance.
